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Pornography

What is upside-down about sex?
Where pornography and love co-exist
How the pornographer steals the soul from sex
What is missing from Pornography
All I really want is to be loved
Recipe for World Peace
Dreams of Love
A CALL TO ARMS
Not Enough Excitement?
Questioning Relationships
Love/Sex Confusion
Porn, Prostitution and The Way Things Are
It's good to be a girl
Deviance
A Mix of Love and
Submission
Love comes in many forms
Passion pushes through
pride
Reviving a Sense of the
Sacred

 

Sunday, June 11, 2006

A CALL TO ARMS

Wow that is cool.

Yesterday’s blog ended with the suggestion that people take each other into their arms to express love rather than lose their energies just dreaming about it, and today’s blog is a “call to arms” to get people involved in a similar form of concrete manifestation.
It’s not enough to complain about the state of things, something must be done. We must be willing to go beyond our comfort zones to change the way the world is evolving; in case you haven’t noticed, we, collectively, are in a very bad place. Politically, personally, concretely; we must change the way we see things as well as the way we’re living.

We desperately need to find a new way of looking at love and sexual expression to get away from the stereotypes of pornography. I have been working on this for several years; drawing with a small group of artists to transform pornography into loving images of human and humane visions of sexuality. You can see these at the Victoria’s Sketchbook link.

But the images from pornography have their obvious limits and we’ve all felt the need to draw from life; from “real” life, from lives that we can relate to, our own and others. As uncomfortable as it was for me, I repeatedly photographed myself nude and set up cameras on timers at the end of the bed and finally asked a trusted girlfriend to photograph me and a lover so that we would have real images to draw from. Those images are what many of the drawings on this blog are based on.

NOW we are asking you to do the same… to send us images of yourself for us to draw to be able to offer something true and beautiful that can replace the overload of porn burned onto so many people’s retinas. Your images will be treated in the same way all the images have been treated on our sites; only drawings are published so that privacy is respected. The actual process of photographing oneself in a sexually-loving situation can be quite liberating when you get beyond your initial resistance, as is seeing images of others sharing sexual love. Makes us all feel a bit less isolated because we can recognize that no matter how hidden and forbidden non-pornographic sex may be, to better recognize the beauty of it, it helps to actually see it.

Just before the Internet came into being, one of our artists spent several years drawing photographs that families accepted to send in showing the intimate moments of childbirth, and to thank them, the artwork was mailed back to with their photos. This project is no different in the sense that it also seeks to honor a natural human function that has been badly misconceived and needs to be seen from a new perspective. You might love seeing yourself making love from the detached perspective that drawings allow.

For more details and to send images:
http://www.freewebs.com/transformporn/
tendernesstowardssex@yahoo.ca