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What is upside-down about sex?
Where pornography and love co-exist
How the pornographer steals the soul from sex
What is missing from Pornography
All I really want is to be loved
Recipe for World Peace
Dreams of Love
A CALL TO ARMS
Not Enough Excitement?
Questioning Relationships
Love/Sex Confusion
Porn, Prostitution and The Way Things Are
It's good to be a girl
Deviance
A Mix of Love and
Submission
Love comes in many forms
Passion pushes through
pride
Reviving a Sense of the
Sacred

 

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Where pornography and love co-exist

I like this picture; I like its' energy... I like the way the woman is submissive (in the sense that she's giving herself to her lover on her knees) and yet still so actively involved in this passionate gesture. I like the way the man is aroused, present, upright, but still giving something back. When coloring it, I also liked the fact that he turned out pinkish and she's an earthy brown tone. There is a dialogue here... a give-and-take, a sharing. Communion. (Not just a word used for a ritual in church... it also means connectedness, meeting, recognizing each other and really being together). That's what I like best about sex!

The photograph from which this image was drawn was found on a porn site. I didn't really like it until it had been transformed into a drawing. My reaction to pornography has always been pretty negative, to me most of it looks so plastic and contrived and so not like the sexual encounters I wish to experience. It is exciting, in the sense that it arouses the senses and stimulates desire, but for what? To just look? I guess my issue has always been that I don't want to just look, I'd much rather be a participant! And the kind of union/communion that I like to participate in doesn't really resemble the majority of the images available on the Internet. In most cases, the heart just seems to be missing from the equation, and to me, that's the best part of all.

With the help of some other artists, I've been involved in a project to infiltrate the Internet with LOVING images of sexuality. We can't make the pornography industry change or disappear, but we can plant some seeds to flower in the midst of this garden overrun with weeds.

Check out the project at: http://freewebs.com/transformporn

If you like what we're doing, maybe you can get involved!