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What is upside-down about sex?
Where pornography and love co-exist
How the pornographer steals the soul from sex
What is missing from Pornography
All I really want is to be loved
Recipe for World Peace
Dreams of Love
A CALL TO ARMS
Not Enough Excitement?
Questioning Relationships
Love/Sex Confusion
Porn, Prostitution and The Way Things Are
It's good to be a girl
Deviance
A Mix of Love and
Submission
Love comes in many forms
Passion pushes through
pride
Reviving a Sense of the
Sacred

 

Monday, May 15, 2006

What is upside-down about sex?

I'm posting this blog about sex because I believe it is an area in our lives severely influenced by attitudes that have caused all kinds of ravages to the human spirit, when really, it is meant to be one of the most beautiful forms of union, reunion, and communion between people.

The damage has been done and continues to be done in some very subtle ways. In 2006, we live with both extremes, from the proliferation of more and more violent pornography to the many forms of subversive Victorian-era style prudishness that still exist within most cultures, including the complete veiling of women in some parts of the world.

But if you dare open the subject with just about anyone, the truth is, people LOVE sex! They want it and they're grateful for it and they wish they could do it more often, sometimes with more people, or in different ways. Because it feels good to be so close to another human being... to break through the barrier of apparent aloneness and reconnect with the Oneness of the universe... and it happens directly in your actual body!

Unfortunately, both extremes tend to stop this from happening, and the many-colored in-betweens of the ordinary people you and I all know are filled with their own inner contradictions on the subject, depending on the views they grew up with and their willingness to change them, and how.

In the middle, there's a simple truth. In my opinion, it comes down to love. Sex is possible without love, and love without sex, but sex shared with love is the most beautiful, soulful meeting possible. To unravel all the things that get in the way of experiencing love during sex and in life in general, we're each given our lifetime to practice.

And if this discussion gets to include love, (which it does seeing as I get to do all the talking), well then I can blog away for a lifetime.

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To answer Nick's question: "How do you draw those?"
They are traced from photographs using a graphics tablet and Macromedia Flash MX, then colored in just like with wax crayons in kindergarten, except on the computer screen (less messy). The self-portraits are exactly that; the scenes of sexual encounters are most often images taken from porn sites.

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