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Love, Just Love

Welcome to my world
Holding on to that lover
A little enthusiasm please!
How the pornographer
steals the soul from sex
What is missing
from Pornography
All I really want
is to be loved
Recipe for World Peace
The Small Stuff
Victoria on her soapbox
Going Beyond the Rules
Honouring Life's Sacred Mysteries
The Sacredness of Sexual Energy
Shame separates:
Love unites
A little story about unconditionality in love
a pause for GREAT-FULL-NESS
The Green-Eyed
Monster; 1:1
The Green-Eyed
Monster; 1:2
Entanglements
Dreams of Love
More musings on
Green-Eyed Monster
Making peace with oneself
Even in the Darkness
Open legs don’t mean
an open heart
Not Enough Excitement?
Feeling the Lack
Questioning Relationships
Love's Backlash and
Self-Hate
Vanity and Self-Love
For You
Something Magical
Simple but not easy
Sometimes
Sometimes, even in the darkness...
Love/Sex Confusion
Perhaps we need some practice
Sex and Symbolism
Passionately
Letting Life's Miracles Happen
Breathless poetry from a reader
Real-Life or Fantasy?
The Infamous Question of Penis Size
Sweet and simple
Looking for Love?
Today just plain-old
sucked
Thoughtless
Loving the Whole Body
Practice, practice,
practice...
It's all okay
Celebrating Sex
Contemplating The Loving Body
Too Beautiful for Words
Too Beautiful for Words II
Still Speechless
The Face of Surrender
Quietly
You Can't Always Get You Want
It's good to be a girl
Exploring New Territory
Sexuality and conception
A Question of Perspective
Another Perspective
Deviance
Inhibitions
The Lights are off...
Repression
Still in the Dark
Lifestyles and Practices
Pretty Woman
To You, Now
A Mix of Love and
Submission
Reviving a Sense of
the Sacred
Thank God for Sex
A written ejaculation on Circulation
Passion pushes through
pride
Surrender
Christopher's Fantasy
Christopher's Fears
Moving into the heart of it
Silently begging for it
Beyond Words
What could be wrong with that?

Sunday, May 14, 2006

Welcome to my world


I must admit this is not my first attempt at blogging... I set up a very well thought-out blog last year, posted twice, and quit, pissed off that apparently nobody noticed. How's that for having issues with instant gratification?

I guess I've grown up a little since then. I've learned a lot more about myself and about other people and about sex as well as my own and other people's fears, issues and desires about sex, plus I've come across a few bloggers so interesting and committed to their craft that they made me want to read them daily.

I have an awful lot (or maybe a wonderful lot) to say on the subject of sexuality, certainly enough to talk about it every day, so here I am... today... and this time I'll try to hang in there a little longer than two days no matter kind what kind of response or non-response happens. I will do it on faith that what I need to express may fall into the hands of some someones who will benefit somehow from reading it.

The short of my story is this: I have always loved sex; I have always loved to touch and be touched but I grew up, like many others, with a heavy guilt trip about sex that led to ridiculous fears and expectations. I've been able to work through a lot of stuff with the help of some very tender people, and I've also found a great deal of freedom from inherited inhibitions through my artwork.

I started by drawing images taken from pornography sites of sexual positions that I found confronting, and later began an extensive project on self-portraiture, which I found extremely helpful with self-image; and these are very interconnected. This blog is to bring you a drawing every day, share some reflections and insights, and offer some links to other sites and projects also working towards a more positive view of sexuality.
Pleased to meet you.

I am Victoria.

Comments:

nick said:
I noticed. Great need for helpful discussion on the topic. Good job on the portrait. How do you draw those? Pleased to meet you.


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